by Ed & Betty Coda | Jul 2, 2021 | Communication, For Couples, Intimacy, Passionate Couple, Passionate Parent
What is the “Dialogue” as we describe in our book?: To simplify what dialogue is, we first of all call it a “10 and 10”. That means 10 minutes to write and 10 minutes to share verbally with each other. First, you select a question. You then should write your response...
by Ed & Betty Coda | May 7, 2021 | Family, Intimacy, Marriage, Passionate Couple, Passionate Parent
It is so important to remind ourselves that we ARE a married couple. When we get into overwhelm in the nitty gritty day to day world, we easily can fall into routines, go through the motions, and operate like two ships passing in the night. The best reminder we know...
by Ed & Betty Coda | Dec 11, 2019 | Communication, Family, For Couples, Forgiveness & Healing, Intimacy, Love, Passionate Couple, Passionate Parent, Trust
Trust cannot be earned! Trust is a gift and a decision; it can never be earned. Once I lie, cheat, steal or commit any crime, I am a liar, cheater or stealer in your heart. You will carry the cloud of doubt and suspicion no matter what I do. Even if I am remorseful...
by Ed & Betty Coda | Dec 6, 2018 | Communication, For Couples, For Parents, Intimacy, Trust
First reaction- Sex. But in truth what has inspired the most intimate moments for us is deep, heartfelt, truthful communication and sharing of feelings. Try this one- “What about me have I never told you before and how do I feel sharing this with you?” You...
by Ed & Betty Coda | Aug 22, 2013 | Children, Communication, Events, Family, For Parents, Intimacy, Marriage, Passionate Couple, Passionate Parent
Based on a recent survey there are around 10 million married Americans who waited until they were married to have sex for the first time. However, only 11% of unmarried modern 25 year olds are still waiting. That number goes up to 20% among Christian groups. Of those,...